I sort of have a conundrum and, being someone rather prone to acting rashly
(I know, you're all surprised), I want to check my reaction.
I have someone I made a web site for about 2+ years ago who I also host on
my VPS. They've been mostly trouble free with the exception that every so
often I get an e-mail from them about "the sky falling" - mostly related to
their e-mail. They seem to think I have some sort of control over how much
spam they get, for example. Or they'll ask me how to set up their mail
client. Most recently, it was that they weren't getting any e-mail. I
set it up to forward me all of their mail and they definitely ARE getting
e-mail and they've probably f'ed up their mail settings again.
The way I see it, I have three options:
1) Tell the client I will no longer be responding to any such message if I
feel the message is likely to lead to a problem "between the keyboard and
the interface"
2) Tell the client I will charge them my normal hourly rate for my time
investigating any support request that winds up not being an issue with the
site or hosting.
3) Tell the client I appreciate their previous business, but that at this
time I think they need to find someone else to host them.
I realize that laypeople aren't likely to understand how web sites &
hosting works and that there may be times when things get blurred and so
you have to expect some requests for support that require a polite response
reminding them of what does and does not fall within my responsibilities,
but there comes a time when they need to understand that we are NOT their
in-house tech support and that their mail client is NOT our responsibility.
What's your take? How would you handle it?

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GreyWyvern - 18 Jul 2007 15:10 GMT
And lo, Karl Groves didst speak in alt.www.webmaster:
> The way I see it, I have three options:
> 1) Tell the client I will no longer be responding to any such message if
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>
> What's your take? How would you handle it?
If you're still on good terms with them, I'd go for #2 definitely. Tell
them that the time you spend investigating their problems is time taken
away from spending time on the rest of your clients, time you can't get
back. Either they will understand and pay you for your time, or they will
get one of their grade-school nephews to do email support and then still
pay you when everything goes horribly awry ;)
Seriously though. A sensible person should understand that they can't
take advantage of your charity forever without turning the relationship
into a bitter mess.
Grey

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Red E. Kilowatt - 18 Jul 2007 18:42 GMT
GreyWyvern <spam@greywyvern.com> wrote in message:
op.tvnyz1lwsl6xfd@news.nas.net,
> Seriously though. A sensible person should understand that they can't
> take advantage of your charity forever without turning the
> relationship into a bitter mess.
>
> Grey
Would mind explaining this to all of my family, friends and neighbors?
:-)

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GreyWyvern - 18 Jul 2007 19:12 GMT
And lo, Red E. Kilowatt didst speak in alt.www.webmaster:
> GreyWyvern wrote in message:
>
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> Would mind explaining this to all of my family, friends and neighbors?
> :-)
Well then, obviously your family, friends and neighbours are not sensible
people :)
Seriously again, if family, friends and neighbours balk at paying you for
doing something which takes up your valuable time, and which you didn't
volunteer to do for them in the first place, then they aren't very
scrupulous people.
Have you even asked them if they would pay you? Or are you just wary
about potentially insulting them by asking? After being called over to my
Dad's office once too many times to install more software, I once
mentioned off-handedly that "I should be getting paid for this".
Surprisingly, I had to convince him I'd only been joking when he insisted
on paying me out of good faith! [1]
You never know until you ask, and until you ask, you'll always been living
in uncomfortable tension.
Grey
[1] Sure I could have taken the money, but I've cost my parents enough
over the years already ;)

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Red E. Kilowatt - 18 Jul 2007 19:39 GMT
GreyWyvern <spam@greywyvern.com> wrote in message:
op.tvn962assl6xfd@news.nas.net,
> And lo, Red E. Kilowatt didst speak in alt.www.webmaster:
>
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> [1] Sure I could have taken the money, but I've cost my parents enough
> over the years already ;)
I definitely charge the neighbors, but they rarely are willing to pay
for all of the actual time it takes me to fix their software problems.
They whine and carry on, so I end up giving them a break and then I'm
pissed off about it afterwards, because I didn't want to do the work in
the first place and I spent so much time on it that I wasn't paid for.
My family expects me to drop whatever I'm doing and get their computer
working right away. My friends want free advice, but I almost always
get sucked into doing the work for them because they can't follow simple
instructions.
I used to do repairs and networking as a business but I got out of it
because I was sick and tired of trying to fix other people's Windows
problems--more often than not caused by trojans and whatnot because they
don't practice safe computing.
I want to tell everyone to leave me alone. But the people who ask me for
help get all pathetic because they don't know where else to turn. Most
of the time it's some stupid software issue that no repair place would
ever bother with beyond erasing the hard disk and reinstalling Windows.
I know I should be a hard a.s about this, but when you've given people
free stuff for so long they develop a sense of entitlement. They'll all
turn on me and think I'm being a selfish prick. But I guess that's the
price I have to pay to get out of this now.

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Martin Harran - 19 Jul 2007 10:54 GMT
> And lo, Red E. Kilowatt didst speak in alt.www.webmaster:
>> Would mind explaining this to all of my family, friends and neighbors?
>> :-)
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> volunteer to do for them in the first place, then they aren't very
> scrupulous people.
I'm in the retail business and it irritates me at times how family and
friends expect an automatic - and significant - discount just because they
are family and friends. After all, I don't ask them to give me part of their
wages!
To be honest, close family and friends don't bother me too much as I'd give
them a discount anyway, it's the indirect ones that get to me. I had a guy a
while ago whose son is married to a woman whose sister is married to my
brother; he asked his daughter-in-law to ask her sister to ask my brother to
ask me if he could get a special discount. What particularly irritated me
was that he's a wealthy guy and owns a business where we occasionally buy
stuff. I sent him back a reply asking if we could get a special discount
every time we buy something from his business :)
Gwin - 18 Jul 2007 15:32 GMT
>I sort of have a conundrum and, being someone rather prone to acting rashly
> (I know, you're all surprised), I want to check my reaction.
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>
> What's your take? How would you handle it?
#2
then just VNC, or one of those web based remote tools, and fix it.
in and out in minutes
Cynode - 18 Jul 2007 15:33 GMT
>I realize that laypeople aren't likely to understand how web sites &
>hosting works and that there may be times when things get blurred and so
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>
>What's your take? How would you handle it?
Do you charge them for hosting? If so they probably assume it comes
with some level of tech support. If not start charging them a monthly
hosting fee and include N amount of tech support with it. If you
really don't want to be their personal tech support, tell them so and
tell them if they want hosting with support you'd gladly recommend
them a company who can do it =)
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George L. Sexton - 18 Jul 2007 17:47 GMT
> 2) Tell the client I will charge them my normal hourly rate for my time
> investigating any support request that winds up not being an issue with the
> site or hosting.
Definitely, charge them time and materials for support issues.
If you jack up your basic rate, and try to cover it there then your basic
rate will be non-competitive.
Additionally, by charging them time and materials, they will only call
when they need something fixed. If you bundle service into your monthly
hosting cost, then they won't have any incentive to user your time wisely.

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Andy Dingley - 19 Jul 2007 11:59 GMT
> 2) Tell the client I will charge them my normal hourly rate for my time
> investigating any support request that winds up not being an issue with the
> site or hosting.
> What's your take? How would you handle it?
#2 or #4, depending on how happy you are at doing it.
#2 is to become their paid tech support. They have problems, you fix
problems, they pay you to fix these problems.
#4 (which personally I'd prefer) is to recognise that "you the
developer" aren't a good choice for delivering ongoing tech support.
So instead you recommend that they deal with some other body who
specialises in this sort of thing (and probably shouldn't be a
development competitor!). They will bill them like #2. If they're in
London, I'd probably suggest <http://runpcrun.com>
SAZ - 20 Jul 2007 16:14 GMT
> I sort of have a conundrum and, being someone rather prone to acting rashly
> (I know, you're all surprised), I want to check my reaction.
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>
> What's your take? How would you handle it?
I had a similar problem with a customer of mine. His office is right
down the street from my post office, so he thought nothing of calling at
least once a week asking me to stop by and check out a computer problem
he was having. It was always a stupid thing - once he had accidentally
unplugged his DSL modem, another time he hid all his desktop icons, his
son was playing a game on his computer and it locked up - always a quick
20 - 30 minute fix, but after a month or so I grew tired of it and told
him that I didn't have the time to do this on a regular basis. The
calls continued.
I finally sent him an invoice for my last 4 visits. I calculated that I
had spent about 2 hours there at $50 per hour, so I mailed an invoice
for $100.
He called me again the following week. When I arrived, he told me that
he would gladly pay for my time, and added another $100 to the check
before he handed it to me.
I know my experience is probably unusual, but try invoicing these
clients, you may be surprised at the results. Best case scenario -
they'll think twice before calling you if they know they have to pay.
Guy Macon - 03 Jul 2008 23:10 GMT
Matt Probert wrote:
>Web page authors have lots of rights. They can also insist on only
>writing the text of their page in Mala, but I should tentatively
>suggest that English might have a wider potential audience?
Indeed. The web page author can get away with deciding to use
a few non-standard fleemishes and the reader will still be able
to gloork the meaning from the context, but there ix a limit;
If too many ot the vleeps are changed, it becomes harder and
qixer to fllf what the wethcz is blorping, and evenually izs
is bkb longer possible to ghilred frok at wifx. Dnighth?
Ngfipht yk ur! Uvq the hhvd or hnnngh. Blorgk? Blorgk!
Blorgkity-blorgk!!!!

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